What is your biggest failure?
- Not sure if my biggest failure has happened yet, but I know I have failed at some things in life — one being choosing a relationship over continuing my college education — allowing someone to control my future success in order to make them happy (the relationship ended) and it wasn’t worth it & even though I could have started back up again after the relationship, by then, I lost the motivation to. Another failure would be allowing what others think of me to hinder me from wanting to be myself, having to pose as someone else or pretend in order to “fit in” with people/ in order to be liked or feel wanted by someone — now I don’t do this, but in the past I did, it was like I was trying to keep up with everyone else and in doing so, I was becoming a people pleaser and it ruined my self esteem, lost me true friendships, and left me exhausted from the constant struggle of changing who I am for people. Now, I have gotten better at just discarding those who don’t accept me for me.
What would you say has been your biggest failures? if not your biggest, a failure in general.